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Month: June 2023

Long Weekend

Posted on 20 June, 202320 June, 2023 by Ridley

Nicole made it her mission to ensure that this holiday weekend was more memorable and relaxing than the last one and, spoiler alert, she aced the assignment. This is despite the fact that my skin is stubbornly refusing to respond to any prescription medication and I find being outside in this heat intolerable beyond “getting in and out of the car.” Friday evening we had what I think were the best hamburgers I’ve ever had the pleasure of eating. She spent all afternoon making a mushroom/truffle spread, a homemade garlic aioli, and baking some french “fries” in such a way that you didn’t really notice that they were baked. Once you’ve added entirely too much brie, the burger itself is almost beside the point. It was really good, but everything else was transcendent. Not at all a bad start. On Saturday, we did some exploring around town. We started by hitting up a local apiary called The Beeswax Department over on the west side of town. They sell honey from their bees and those of other local folks, as well as beeswax candles and other goodies, and even beekeeping equipment. Mark spent a good twenty minutes chatting with us which was awfully generous of him. They’re good folks, and we wound up leaving with far more than we’d intended to buy. Since we were almost literally across the street from ’em, we stopped by Granzin’s Meat Market as well. The only reason we didn’t pick up any of their wares was that they were so busy that we wanted to come back later when we’d have more of an opportunity to check them out without inconveniencing anyone else. The dried goods and the pre-packaged cuts looked great, but it was the meat counter itself that deserved closer inspection. Sunday morning we drove into San Antonio to visit the Alamo. You may say “Gee Ridley. You’ve been in Texas for a long time. Have you never visited the Alamo before?” Well, yes, of course, I have. But what I have not done is see the Phil Collins collection. Yes, the famous drummer/singer/producer is also one of the world’s foremost Alamo buffs. His private collection of memorabilia was considered the largest and most important of any on the planet, and he donated it all to the Alamo. He also narrated the story of the battle in the room with the diorama: Given my unabashed fandom, this was kind of thrilling to me. I mean, there are only so many old guns and documents and such you can look at before your eyes start to glaze over, but the fact that one of my favorite musicians just gave it all away made me smile. Totally worth it to me; your mileage might vary. This morning, we popped over to the local theater to see Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse. My expectations were high given how much I enjoyed the original, but this was another level of awesome. Instead of just stretching the visual limits of cinema, this film (damned if I’m typing the full name again) absolutely destroyed those boundaries. The things they do with frame rates as a storytelling device are unreal and must have been incredibly expensive. Oh, and the story was pretty great too. Hobie Brown is the best representation of “punk rock” I’ve seen in a film. It was all just awesome. Also, going to a local cinema at 11:00 AM on a Monday sometimes means you have the auditorium to yourself, and that doesn’t suck. So yeah, #$%$%^ great weekend. Thank you, Nicole. Somehow, you made a 3-day weekend feel like a lot more. Hope y’all are doing well and keeping cool (109 here today), -RK

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Believe The Hype: Five Things That Were As Good As Advertised

Posted on 18 June, 202318 June, 2023 by Ridley

If you’re anything like me, you may have a deep resistance to anything that has received a little too much hype. “You’d love this! It’s just your sort of thing! It’s a classic!” and so forth. Perhaps it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy, but it’s been my experience that most things that have been pumped up that much will disappoint. It’s all about managing expectations. Side note: I think this is the genius of Mike Myers movies. The previews are among the most leaden advertisements I’ve ever seen for comedy films. However, I usually find myself enjoying his movies to some degree, and I suspect this is due to the fact that my expectations were so low. There are exceptions. So, in the interest of positivity, I thought I’d share some of the things I was told I would love and I did, in fact, wind up loving them. Watchmen (comic book) Along with Frank Miller and Klaus Jansen’s The Dark Knight Returns, this Alan Moore and Dave Gibbons book was immediately recognized as an event that would change comics forever. I was primarily reading funny indy comics like Flaming Carrot Comics, The Trouble with Girls, Normalman, and The Tick at the time and had no interest in checking out a (relatively) mainstream book featuring characters I’d never heard of. I don’t remember why Sean suggested I read it (probably because he’d just introduced me to the Grant Morrison run on Doom Patrol and I was suddenly very into this sort of thing), but I plopped down and read them all back to back. Given the density of the writing and the long prose sections, this took a while. Then I read ’em again because…oh my. It’s unfortunate that Watchmen really did change comics because the approach of treating the heroes not as selfless do-gooders or mustache-twirling villains was unique. The “heroes” were just people, which was much worse. The deconstruction of the idea of “hero” was so complete that comics didn’t really recover it until Morrison’s All-Star Superman. OK, so it was influential, but was it good? Yeah, it was riveting. If you can get past the trademark Moore rape scene (don’t care if that gets spoiled), it’s a fantastic mystery/thriller from page one and, more than any other book, works as a “graphic novel” in that it is a completely realized story over a limited number of issues. It was every bit as good as advertised. Portal (video game) I never played any of the Half-Life games, so I was only vaguely aware that this existed when it was released. But, on the forums, you couldn’t get away from it. Imagine the worst of the Monty Python and Rick and Morty fans tossing references back and forth and you’re still nowhere near it. “Instantly meme-able” is great for pop culture awareness, but was the game as good as the quotes? According to literally everyone, the answer was “yes.” So, I looked into it a little. It was a nice short game with lots of interesting physics puzzles based around the idea of pairs of portals that allow you to step through one and emerge through the other while conserving momentum. It’s just you and perhaps the most deeply unreliable narrator in the history of narration, trying to complete a series of tests. Neat! And then, you complete the last one and…well, there’s more and that’s all I’m going to say. The puzzles start simple and turn diabolic as the game goes on. The sense of humor makes “dark” look like a Sanrio character. And holy cow, the end credits. Anyway, Yahtzee Crenshaw of Zero Punctuation, who rather famously hates everything, reviewed it and wound up with rather strong feelings about it: I’d heard it was good. I honestly think it’s the best game I’ve ever played. The Good Place (television) I don’t watch a lot of broadcast TV and haven’t for a long time. That’s not a statement meant to convey any superiority; I engage in plenty of screen entertainment but it’s just not normally network television. So, I hadn’t seen any of the ads for The Good Place when I started hearing about how I very much needed to watch it. Nicole bought season one on one of the streaming services and we plopped down for the pilot. My first reaction was “how the #$%%^ did this get made?” The setup was so far from any sitcom I’ve seen before or since, and it was pretty irreverent for a network show. Kristen Bell and Ted Danson were obviously having a blast doing setting the stage for what was an absolutely genius twist at the end of the pilot. So, now we have a mystery that’s also a screwball comedy with additional random silliness flying everywhere because, with this tableau, you can do pretty much anything you want. Season one was all about trying to figure out what the heck had happened and the payoff is absolutely stunning. In fact, it was so perfect that I haven’t watched seasons 2-4. This is partially due to what we’ll call “the Arrested Development effect” and partially down to just how complete and self-contained season one was. It didn’t need any expansion. My understanding is that they do stick the landing in season 4 and I’m sure I’ll get around to it at some point, but for now, I’m just going to bask in the memory of one perfect season of television. The Matrix (film) This was always in my wheelhouse. There was no way I wasn’t going to see it. That doesn’t mean I wasn’t absolutely sick to death of people telling me how awesome it was. It would “change my whole view of reality,” said people who hadn’t read Grant Morrison’s The Invisibles. It was dark! It was cool! It had martial arts, gunplay, leather, sunglasses, hacking, and something approaching a philosophy. It had HUGO WEAVING DOING A CARL SAGAN IMPRESSION! Yes, I recognize that the whole world was built on one of the most ridiculous ideas you could possibly imagine. Let’s move past that, please. Thus, I had an awful lot of built-in resistance when I finally went to see it. All of which crumbled in the first ten minutes. Everything I’d been told was right, but what they hadn’t conveyed was just how tight…

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Small Victories

Posted on 17 June, 202317 June, 2023 by Ridley

In which I overcome 30+ years of muscle memory As is usually the case, the gaps between posts this time around are the result of a perfect storm of health concerns, stress, a little despondency about how the world seems to be spinning, more stress, work, and stress. These factors are all too intertwined to try to untangle, but I paralyze myself with them from time to time. Thanks for sticking around. So, here’s one thing I want to start doing more often: Writing about making music. This is primarily for my own benefit. Writing about it means I have to think about it and I’m hoping that this will help me retain a little more of what I learn. Having to consider what I was doing, what worked, what didn’t, what frustrated me, etc. seems like a useful exercise. We’ll see. That brings us to the point of tonight’s post: I finally learned how to play Genesis’ “Follow You Follow Me” properly on keyboards. Let me explain why that feels like a big win to me. I’ve been playing that song in a somewhat half-assed way since my early 20s. I never had any trouble picking out the organ chords. I’ve known how to play the solo correctly the whole time, even if the performance wasn’t always there. However, I’ve never managed to play the correct lead line during the verse. My ears aren’t very good and I’ve never been able to hear what Tony Banks was doing relative to the vocal line. So, I’ve always just played the vocal line with the right hand. That’s great for just solo playing, but if you’re trying to do it right, it’s really annoying. How long have I failed at this? I remember one night at Bob’s house when the guys were generously letting me play along with them. I’d brought my SH101 over and was sort of fumbling through the solo (37 keys aren’t enough and I’m not quick enough with the transpose switch). During the verse, I just echoed the vocal line and I knew it wasn’t right but I also couldn’t pick out the correct notes. And I’ve been playing it that way for decades. Last night, I was in a relaxed frame of mind and decided I’d just fight through it. I still couldn’t really hear it clearly, but I could hear it just enough to kind of pick it out. After more tries than I’d care to admit, I had it. And, let’s be honest here: It’s not a difficult bit at all. The first phrase does follow the vocals, which is why kept getting hung up. The second phrase stays the same while the melody doesn’t. The last two phrases are simple, single-note harmonies that (mostly) stay in the same chord as the organ and complement the vocals. So easy, but so satisfying! Victory… …or maybe not. I could now play the lead properly. However, I’d been playing very specific notes over specific chords for a very long time and I found I could no longer play the organ parts along with it. This was frustrating. This was really frustrating. But, this was a problem that was within my grasp. After several playthroughs, I slowly got back to syncing the chords with the lead and even nailed the solo. Huzzah! Thinking about it, there was probably a better way to learn it. For example, a good DAW should allow me to get most of the vocals out of the way with EQ. There are probably “vocal removal” sites for making karaoke videos. Heck, someone has probably already posted one on YouTube. Let me go check. Yep, there was. That would have saved a lot of time. At least it was only posted a month ago so I don’t have to sit here thinking “Why didn’t I look for this 10 years ago?” Anyway, this felt huge. I’ve always been low-key ashamed that, while I could play the song, I knew I wasn’t playing it right. It felt great to overcome that and to stomp on a bad habit while I was at it. There’s no “lesson” beyond “It’s fun to confront old roadblocks and discover that you now have the skills to overcome them.” Which is a pretty good lesson, I suppose. In other news, things are trending well in these parts. Some potentially scary medical stuff turned out to have been a false alarm, the house is clean, the cats are happy, and I may have purchased a new toy that I absolutely did not need and it is glorious. I hope things are good in your neck of the woods. -RK

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